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12 Oct
2026

College Application Season Is Scary Enough: How Parents Can Help Instead of Hurt

  • October 12, 2026
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 94 views

By Caroline Matas, Ph.D. It’s my favorite time of year. There’s (finally) a chill in the air. My daughter and I take walks through the park and crunch every possible fallen leaf underfoot. Pumpkins adorn doorsteps, ghosts hang from windows and trees. Every evening, we get a faint whiff of a neighbor’s bonfire through our..

05 Oct
2026

Should You Play a Sport?

  • October 5, 2026
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 120 views

By Victoria Tillson Evans, Ph.D. My daughter recently said to me, “You are surprisingly athletic.” While certainly a loaded statement, to be honest, I’ll take this 70% compliment, 30% insult from her. Being athletic has been important to me ever since my best friend and I owned the boys on our elementary school’s kickball field...

10 Jul
2026

Become a Better Reader in Just One Easy Step (Pick up a Book)

  • July 10, 2026
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 442 views

By Caroline Matas, Ph.D. Every student I work with receives the same exhortation as we talk through their summer plans. Between the summer classes, the sports camps, the internships, and the travel, please, I beg them, please, make time to read a book by the pool.  It isn’t really about the pool. A creek, a..

07 Jul
2026

Should You Worry About Party Schools?

  • July 7, 2026
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 500 views

By Adrian Cho, Ph.D. The summer is upon us! A time of beach vacations, mountain getaways, Fourth of July barbecues, and the 2026 World Cup – in other words, parties. Some amount of revelry is not just understandable but well-deserved after a long school year. When it comes to college life, however, a school’s partying..

07 Jul
2026

Taking the Right Train of Thought in Your College Essays

  • July 7, 2026
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 434 views

By Victoria Tillson Evans, Ph.D. To tell a story is hard. Or is it, a story is hard to tell? Or maybe, hard it is to tell a story? These variations on the same theme reveal the difficulties you face when trying to write, let alone trying to develop your college essays. Where do you..

12 Apr
2026

Performing Yourself: A Musician’s Guide to the Video Essay

  • April 12, 2026
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 710 views

By Adrian Cho, Ph.D. The note arrives before the thought does. A high E, fortissimo, shouting into the crowd: “Barabbam, oder Jesum?” In J. S. Bach’s St. Matthew Passion, Pontius Pilate asks the gathered crowd of Jews whether they would rather free Barabbas or Jesus, and for that moment, I am Pontius Pilate. Of course,..

08 Apr
2026

Making the Most of Your Summer–Your Way

  • April 8, 2026
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 737 views

By Caroline Matas, Ph.D. Have you ever heard Frank Sinatra’s song “My Way?” It’s kind of a dirge, and honestly I don’t really recommend it. I only listened to it for the first time when I learned about the phenomenon of “My Way” karaoke murders (absolutely worth a Google). But there’s a reason it’s so..

05 Apr
2026

The 3 Biggest Brag Sheet Blunders

  • April 5, 2026
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 726 views

By Victoria Tillson Evans, Ph.D. Besides the bursts of pink cherry blossoms, the sugary gooeyness of Cadbury Crème Eggs, and the mulchy petrichor following drizzly afternoons, nothing says spring quite like high school juniors’ brag sheets. These often lengthy questionnaires, sometimes referred to as Counselor Forms, Junior Packets, or other less-than-creative names, are like the..

24 Jan
2026

Beyond the Rankings: Building a Thoughtful College List

  • January 24, 2026
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 841 views

By Adrian Cho, Ph.D. Happy New Year, dear readers! As we begin 2026, the time comes to begin seriously considering the list of colleges you will build (if you are a junior). It’s not just about finding schools that might accept you. It’s about identifying places where you can genuinely thrive. Building your college list..

24 Jan
2026

The Monster, the Myth, the Legend: The Admissions Counselor

  • January 24, 2026
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 1,127 views

By Caroline Matas, Ph.D. It doesn’t take a deep dive into college admissions Reddit, TikTok, or discussion boards to encounter tall tales about the mythical creature at the center of it all: the Admissions Counselor.   The Admissions Counselor is larger than life, all-knowing, the keeper of the keys to your future. The Admissions Counselor throws..