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10 Apr
2025

The Pay-to-Play Summer Program

  • April 10, 2025
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 5,013 views

By Adam Muri-Rosenthal, Ph.D. I’ve always had a complicated relationship with the concept of “value.” Maybe it’s because I work in a field where people often mistake appearances for substance, or because I’ve seen too many students directly equate cost (or worse, college ranking) with quality. Nowhere is that more visible than in the world..

10 Apr
2025

When They Say “No”: Dealing With Rejection and Moving Beyond

  • April 10, 2025
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 1,461 views

By Adrian Cho, Ph.D. “Dear applicant, Thank you very much for your interest. We regret to inform you….” No need to even finish reading the email–you already know it’s a rejection. Your heart plummets and the months of anxious anticipation dissolve instantly. Disappointment, sadness, maybe even anger and resentment soon follow. This experience is pretty..

14 Jan
2025

Tell Me about Yourself

  • January 14, 2025
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 2,117 views

By Adrian Cho, Ph.D. “Tell me about yourself.” No other set of four words have quite the same potential to conjure up existential angst. It’s really asking, “Who are you?” Considering the question invites self-reflection as we try to articulate our narratives about who we are. And it comes up in all manner of contexts:..

13 Jan
2025

The “Explosive” Truth about Fit

  • January 13, 2025
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 1,769 views

By Adam Muri-Rosenthal, Ph.D. When J. Robert Oppenheimer began attending Harvard University as an undergraduate in 1922, he had only recently recovered from a serious gastrointestinal illness (Wikipedia contributors) that had put him well behind his intended timeline for graduation. In order to make up for time lost, young Robert enrolled in six courses per..

13 Jan
2025

Don’t Neglect Your Creative Side

  • January 13, 2025
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 1,360 views

By Caroline Matas, Ph.D. When I was a kid, there weren’t nearly as many screens making demands on my time and attention as today’s teenagers face. That didn’t stop me from gravitating toward the TV after school and watching hours’ worth of whatever the gods of cable television served up (the olden days before streaming–I..

13 Jan
2025

Leadership Is about Choices, Not Titles

  • January 13, 2025
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 1,538 views

By Victoria Tillson Evans, Ph.D. Leadership. It’s one of those qualities that nearly everyone feels that they should possess. After all, we admire leaders. We follow leaders. We look to leaders to give us meaning and purpose. We have them in our political lives, our personal lives, our school or professional lives, and sometimes in..

22 Oct
2024

Controlling the Conversation with Your Additional Information Section

  • October 22, 2024
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 1,795 views

By Victoria Tillson Evans, Ph.D. Sometimes, what’s left unsaid means more than what’s spelled out. Think about how your mom or dad might prepare your favorite meal after a stressful day and let you enjoy it in peaceful silence. That quiet gesture can often show as much love and care, if not more, than asking..

22 Oct
2024

The Neurodiversity Perspective

  • October 22, 2024
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 1,474 views

By Adam Muri-Rosenthal, Ph.D. This one’s personal for me. While I’ve never hidden my own neurodiversity, I’ve also never before addressed it in a public forum like this one. But part of my neurodiversity has been a guileless—at times appreciated by some as honest and direct, at others derided as naive—willingness to open up to..

22 Oct
2024

A Beautiful (Organized) Mind

  • October 22, 2024
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 1,124 views

By Adrian Cho, Ph.D. “All the noise in my brain. I clamp it to the page so it will be still.” –Barbara Kingsolver When I was in high school, I didn’t keep any notes. In my youthful arrogance, I believed that I could keep everything in my head, and no parent or teacher was going..

22 Oct
2024

Five Ways to Elevate Your Application Essays

  • October 22, 2024
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 1,283 views

By Caroline Matas, Ph.D. As the first wave of college application deadlines looms, high school seniors around the country are starting to feel the pressure. With so many supplemental essays to keep track of–not to mention the big personal statement essay to tackle–it might feel like the best you can do is just knock out..