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07 Jul
2025

The Reconstructive Nature of Memories (And Why That’s Good for Your Essays)

  • July 7, 2025
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 1,045 views

By Adrian Cho, Ph.D. “Remembrance of things past is not necessarily the remembrance of things as they were.” – Marcel Proust (1871-1922), In Search of Lost Time: Swann’s Way The cursor blinks on an empty page. You rack your brain as you search your unresponsive mind for details on the moment you threw the game-winning..

07 Jul
2025

The Word Limit

  • July 7, 2025
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 931 views

By Adam Muri-Rosenthal, Ph.D. “I hit the word limit so I stopped writing.” Every year, throughout the essay drafting odyssey, multiple students dismay me with this very phrase. It’s an idea that arises from the misconception that a word limit is a cumbersome goal to be reached and, once reached, an impassable wall beyond which..

29 Jun
2025

The Application Season’s Deadline Dash

  • June 29, 2025
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 855 views

By Victoria Tillson Evans, Ph.D. There’s nothing like an imminent deadline to force people to get started. Unfortunately, that mindset doesn’t work for the college admissions process. Planning to start your applications and essays just shy of November 1st, the big Early Action or Decision deadline for most schools, is like trying to run a..

10 Apr
2025
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“Fool’s Gold”: Fake Honors in College Admissions

  • April 10, 2025
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 2,466 views

By Victoria Tillson Evans, Ph.D. My mom recently toted several items over to my house in an eager effort to clean out my old closet. Shoved in a plastic Safeway bag was a mixture of relics from my teens and twenties: a few quirky thinking-of-you Hallmark cards from my parents, a ticket to the Vatican’s..

10 Apr
2025

Is a Liberal Arts School Right for You? You Might be Surprised!

  • April 10, 2025
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 1,734 views

By Caroline Matas, Ph.D. Often, when I start talking with high school students about what kind of college they’d like to go to, they’re not sure where to begin. There are so many different variables to consider: public or private; large, medium, or small; close to home or a plane ride away; in the heart..

10 Apr
2025

The Pay-to-Play Summer Program

  • April 10, 2025
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 2,248 views

By Adam Muri-Rosenthal, Ph.D. I’ve always had a complicated relationship with the concept of “value.” Maybe it’s because I work in a field where people often mistake appearances for substance, or because I’ve seen too many students directly equate cost (or worse, college ranking) with quality. Nowhere is that more visible than in the world..

10 Apr
2025

When They Say “No”: Dealing With Rejection and Moving Beyond

  • April 10, 2025
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 1,160 views

By Adrian Cho, Ph.D. “Dear applicant, Thank you very much for your interest. We regret to inform you….” No need to even finish reading the email–you already know it’s a rejection. Your heart plummets and the months of anxious anticipation dissolve instantly. Disappointment, sadness, maybe even anger and resentment soon follow. This experience is pretty..

14 Jan
2025

Tell Me about Yourself

  • January 14, 2025
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 1,831 views

By Adrian Cho, Ph.D. “Tell me about yourself.” No other set of four words have quite the same potential to conjure up existential angst. It’s really asking, “Who are you?” Considering the question invites self-reflection as we try to articulate our narratives about who we are. And it comes up in all manner of contexts:..

13 Jan
2025

The “Explosive” Truth about Fit

  • January 13, 2025
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 1,360 views

By Adam Muri-Rosenthal, Ph.D. When J. Robert Oppenheimer began attending Harvard University as an undergraduate in 1922, he had only recently recovered from a serious gastrointestinal illness (Wikipedia contributors) that had put him well behind his intended timeline for graduation. In order to make up for time lost, young Robert enrolled in six courses per..

13 Jan
2025

Don’t Neglect Your Creative Side

  • January 13, 2025
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 1,067 views

By Caroline Matas, Ph.D. When I was a kid, there weren’t nearly as many screens making demands on my time and attention as today’s teenagers face. That didn’t stop me from gravitating toward the TV after school and watching hours’ worth of whatever the gods of cable television served up (the olden days before streaming–I..